Have you noticed the trend that many successful women have a lot of trouble when it comes to finding a husband?Many try to enlist the help of a matchmaker to find them someone, but even then, they have trouble with the dates they are set up on.The women of our generation have become far more independent than their predecessors.The female workforce has greatly evolved, achieving places of power and success.
After working with several dozens of successful women throughout my matchmaking and dating coaching career, I have discovered many patterns that cause their lack of success with dating, and no, they are not what you think. Too Picky – I have found that although most single women are too picky, the vast majority of successful single women are far more picky than the average woman. They have a laundry list of awesome traits that make them have a line of suitors to their door. So with the combination of being too picky and having limited choices, it’s a recipe for perpetual singledom.In ancient times, and by ancient I mean prior to the 1980s, men's idea of a perfect woman was one-dimensional.Men sought out women who had the biological qualifications such as wide hips and full breasts for bearing children, as well as women who would generally make good "housewives." It is easy to say the needs of successful men haven't changed and dismiss the matter, but that is not true.The last recession had a sobering effect on American families: A singular breadwinner is a thing of the best.Men realized the need for two support beams in a family and soon the notion turned into an ideal, then a standard.