“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.
(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.
You don’t have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20’s.
On the other hand, many women are most attracted to men in their 30’s, 40’s, and even 50’s.
This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So much so, that they don’t go after women they’re actually interested in.
This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences.
Before I get attacked as somehow being sexist…look at the anecdotal evidence.
On average, men in all societies date younger women.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.They first met when he was 15 and she was a 39-year-old teacher at his school.She divorced her first husband and married Macron 14 years later. They think it’s creepy and even put them the same category as pedophiles. But many people in society still look down upon older men dating younger girls.